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Living Through Pain: A Raw First-Person Breakdown of Chronic Illness and Survival — by Jonathan Harnisch

Every day my body betrays me. I can’t even open a doorknob without hurting myself. I lose my grip, bang into the frame, slam into furniture, drop whatever I’m holding. Most of it lands on my feet, and my feet can’t take it anymore. My legs are the worst — they carry the weight of this curse. The pain is constant, sharp, electric, like every cell is inflamed and ready to collapse. It’s not soreness; it’s excruciating, the kind of pain that makes you gasp, the kind that makes the idea of moving unbearable.

I’ve been in bed more than a year, watching my body disintegrate. No medication that helps, no doctor who listens, no family who cares. Friends disappeared. Family wrote me off. When the prescriptions were pulled, I was left to rot. The rest of the world moves on — people buy homes, take trips, celebrate birthdays — and I’m here, collapsing in private, bruised and broken from hitting the walls of my own room. I’ve been abandoned in plain sight.

The afternoons are the only reprieve. Around four o’clock, most days, the pain dulls a little. I can almost trick myself into believing I’m still human. Then it comes back — harder, sharper — as if to punish me for hoping. That’s the rhythm of my life: torture, small reprieve, torture again.

What makes it unbearable isn’t only the pain. It’s how I’ve been treated. I begged for help — called hundreds of doctors, advocates, services. I was met with lies, excuses, “not taking new patients,” “too complex,” “not our scope.” Concierge medicine, supposed to be premium care, turned out to be a fraud. The same people who promised they’d stand by me vanished the moment things got difficult. My name, my history, my decades of work — none of it shielded me from being discarded like a burden.

It feels like the whole world conspired to forget me. To leave me here to die in slow motion, trapped in a body that doesn’t work, in a system that doesn’t care. And yet I’m still here, writing this, trying to make sense of the collapse. I don’t want to die; I just don’t know how to live when every movement is an injury and every day is a betrayal.

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